Choosing a marriage partner
is a most serious matter, perhaps the most serious decision you
will ever make in your life since your partner an cause you either
to be successful or to fail miserably, in the
tests of this life and, consequently, in the Here- after. This
decision needs to be made with utmost care and caution, repeatedly
seeking guidance from your Lord.
Your Lord knows all about you, and has planned your destiny and
your partner for you. Be sure that He will bring you together when
the time is right.
You just have to be patient and loving and let God do His work in
His time. So many marriages have broken because the partners are
in such haste that they don't take time to make such
vital checks and rush into things. Don't add yourself to the list
of marriage casualties because you couldn't take time or were too
desperate for marriage to find out about or get to know the person
with whom you plan to spend the rest of your life.
marriage is not just for today or tomorrow but for life, and for
the primary purpose of building a family.
The biblical strategy for choosing a life partner is to seek God's
will in prayer and then trust Him to lead. His Word says, ". . .
in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let
your requests be made known to God" (Philippians 4:6).
It is your choice, but please remember to always make God part of
your decisions. You may be pleasantly surprised where He leads you
in your faith, in your choice of a mate, and in all your
relationships. I pray you find the happiness God gives us in
loving a spouse who also loves Him.
Our Heavenly Father is far more than our earthly father. (see
We will grow strong and when temptations and troubles come at our
doorstep, we know how to handle them. We'll grab our Father's
hand and let Him lead us and care for us, just as an obedient
child can expect support from his earthly father.
When you are hot from being in the sun and you are near dying from
thirst you better walk to the water tap for a cool drink. The
water tap will not walk to you. So, if you stay where you are you
will not get anything done. That is how it is with the Word of
God, we have to read, believe it, obey it and then we will profit
Develop your Faith. Faith comes by hearing of the Word. Faith is
active, it is not acquired by wishing, but through practice: by
acting upon God's Word. For example: a pianist has to practice to
develop her skills, just looking at the piano does not do her any
Please your God by faith. The rest is His responsibility. Whatever
work needs to be done HE will guide you, NOT your own thinking. He
will bring the people, He will show you places, He will provide
the opportunities. You just need to be ready for His direction.
You must abide in Him, obey His word and walk by faith, not by
sight. Exercise your faith and allow it to develop into maturity.
Establish a deeper bond with the Lord, let holiness be your
partner. Be in constant communication with Him and have your mind
set on Him. Whatever you pray for, walk by faith in the direction
of your prayer. Be encouraged for a closer walk with Him, get
saturated with the scriptures, dwell upon Him and discipline
yourself to praise Him at ALL times. For the Lord dwells on the
praises of His children. To do God's Will and to please Him we
cannot do on our own. The Lord has provided the Holy Spirit as our
Helper, He will do it in us as we allow Him to.
Therefore be patient He will let go and give us the desires of our
own heart. Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord and He will
lift you up. Don't look back at past failures, pick yourself up,
square your shoulders and march on as a true soldier of the cross.
Our Father will never give us a task we cannot accomplish.
Remember.... He is more than our earthly father.
You might have tried your best, but the results haven't exactly
graceful . But with the hand of the Master, our life's work truly
can be beautiful.
Next time, listen carefully, you can hear the voice of the Master,
whispering in your ear, Feel His loving arms around you. Know that
His strong hands are there helping you turn your feeble attempts
into true masterpieces. Remember, God will always be there to love
and guide you on to great things.
Start a prayer life, praying every day morning and evening.
Dedicate minimum 1 Hr for praising and praying. Surely God will Help you.
We also earnestly praying for you. May God bless you and help you
to find your life partner very soon..
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Yours in Christ,